Love (and Loss) on Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day—a wonderful celebration for some. A day to get through—to get over—for others.  But no matter your present situation, if you have had love in your life—even lost love—it has changed you, hopefully expanded your heart, given you an even greater capacity for love.

I first wrote this poem in 1969.  I was 21 years old.  I have “dinked” with it over the years, adding the perspective of time.  But the message is basically intact.  It speaks for itself.  I hope it helps my readers to understand that we not only need to be loved, but we also need to love others.  And each time we do, our hearts expand, making room for more love.

 

Time and Loss

Reflecting back,
I watch time and distance recede,
shrinking mountains
into smooth, rolling hills
against a brilliant sky.
Like the leveling peaks,
pain and loss recedes,
releasing my mind,
quieting that place in my heart
reserved for you and you alone.
Not saying that I’ll never love again,
nor that another cannot enter in.
But time can never take the past away.
It cannot make the feelings felt,
the laughter heard, the seasons shared
pass into moments never lived,
nor keep this heart
from loving moments given.
For I know in life there will always be
a time when there was only
you and me.

Copyright:  Laurel Jean Becker February 13, 2014

Comments

12 responses to “Love (and Loss) on Valentine’s Day”

  1. Laurel Jean Becker Avatar

    Catharine: Delighted you enjoyed my poem and that it resonated with wonderful memories. Thank you for letting me know.

  2. Catharine Parks Avatar
    Catharine Parks

    I really enjoyed this poem. A true love only comes by once in a lifetime, at least for some of us. I enjoyed this poem, it brought back many wonderful memories.

    Thank you,
    Catharine

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    admin

    Aunt Beulah: Thank you for your comment. It is good to know that my work touches you and your life. It strikes me that you, in your wisdom, have lived this poem. You deserve all the love that life can bring you.

  4. Aunt Beulah Avatar

    I wish I’d had this lovely poem to help me when I was divorced from a man I’d loved and who had loved me for many years. I tried to explain to family and friends why I couldn’t hate, forget, or speak ill of my past with my ex-husband. Loving him and being loved by him had given me and taught me so much. After the initial pain, I could only wish him well. Your poem would have helped me explain my feelings.

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    Benevolent World Dictator

    This is nice, mom. I like it.

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    admin

    I am glad, too, Trina. He has been a wonderful partner in life. Thank you Nancy and Betty.

  7. Betty Terpstra Avatar
    Betty Terpstra

    Really beautiful!

  8. Nancy Hegan Avatar
    Nancy Hegan

    Thank you, Laurie for your lovely words. I’m so glad you continue to write and share your gift.

  9. Trina Avatar

    Ah, it’s so good to find someone to help you through this life! And, you express it so well that I have tears in my eyes–so glad you and Randy found each other.

  10. Nancy Peterson Avatar

    Lovely perspective. And strong ending that rings with truth.

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    admin

    Thank you, Elle. And the same for you, too.

  12. Elle Avatar
    Elle

    May your day be one of lovely moments and memories

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